Monday, December 21, 2015

2015 Christmas

Hello everyone from the Hopper Family. We hope that you are having a great Holiday season so far this year and hope that it will continue throughout the New Year. We wanted to make a post on our blog this year to help everyone know how our family is doing.

Let's start with our youngest - Nathan (1). He is our littlest one. He loves to suck on his four fingers. He is so cheerful and loves to play. He has a very big smile. He is nearing 20 months old. His hair is blonde and may be the only child to have the most blonde hair. He loves his older sister Julie and they are best buds although they do get into tug of war fights with toys from time to time. He loves taking naps at his scheduled times. He is beginning to speak and express his feelings by grunting and growling as he eats his food. He loves to play hide and seek and ride on Julie's plasma car.

Julie (3) is getting more feisty as she gets older and more demanding in what she wants.
She is very bossy toward her older brothers and sisters making sure they do what Mom told them to do. She is at a stage where she is saying so many funny and witty things. For example, the other day she angrily told Jamie and Katherine, "I need my causitive!" Confused the girls asked Wendy what that meant, but she told them Julie just made up that word. Julie loves to wear her pretty dresses to church on Sunday and bring her own set of scriptures to church and when we read as a family. She gets into mom's purse and digs for candy. One of her favorite things to do is walk around the house holding the iPod while she listens to her primary songs. Going outside with Nathan is always fun for her because she gets to put on her shoes (She has several pairs.) and coat. She is also a very sweet and loving little girl. You can frequently find her in Mommy's or Daddy's lap.

Next is Jeffery (9). In May toward the end of the school year, the teacher recommended Jeffery that Jeffery be tested for the gifted program so the gifted teacher requested permission to test him. Wendy and I consented even though we had already decided to homeschool Jeffery after the current school year ended. He was accepted into the program. Wendy began homeschooling him in July because of the helpers she had at home for the summer. Jeffery has already learned to type and write in cursive. He is not as angry as he was before, and his relationship with Wendy is much better (not perfect though). Life in general is much better.
Jeffery played basketball in February and learned a lot about the game. We usually only allow the children to play one sport each year due to the and will play soccer in the spring this upcoming year. Jeffery loves to make people laugh and is goofy and playful. We love him for who he is and are excited to see who he becomes.
He has also been participating in Cub Scouts. He is doing very well and learning so much. He was at Wolf rank for most of the year up until his birthday where he completed all of his requirements. In the past couple of weeks, we had a Pack Meeting where he was awarded his Wolf badge. We are still working on his Faith in God program where he can complete the requirements which also includes learning all of the Articles of Faith.

Ethan (12) has made some major accomplishments this year, too. He started out this year in the 6th grade playing basketball. He made a lot of progress from year 2 to 3. His team went all the way to the championship game but lost. That says a lot because the team was about middle of the pack but in the tournament, they went a long way. Year 4 of basketball will hopefully be good too. Ethan has the coach of the team that beat them in the championship game last year, so that is really good.
He is now in the 7th grade this year and is doing very well in school. He picked up the reading bug this year too. He is reading like crazy almost every chance he gets. Sometimes that is good and sometimes that is bad because he neglects other responsibilities that he should be doing. He gets the reading gene from his mother.
Ethan attended his first Scout Camp this past year. It was at Camp Sequoyah in Delta, Alabama. He attended Scout Camp at the right time. It was in the high 80's that week with low humidity. The next week was in the 90's with high humidity. Whew! I attended 2 days with him. He has worked on a lot of badges and on December 16th, the troop had a court of honor and he has advanced in rank. He is currently working on a few merit badges - Communication and Family Life. I am working with him on the Family Life. We just started and if he will put his favorite books down, he can accomplish this badge very easily and learn a lot during the process.
Ethan has also grown a few inches since the beginning of the year. He is now taller than his sisters and may be taller than his mom. If not, he will get there soon. He is a deacon at church and passes the sacrament. He also conducts the music in the priesthood hour. Wendy is very proud of him for conducting the music. He is becoming a good leader among his peers at church and at school. He also home teaches with me and teaches some of the lessons. We are very grateful for his growth and progress as a young man and look forward to seeing how he grows.

Katherine (14) is becoming a beautiful young woman. She is still playing the piano - although sporadic at times, but she is playing. We wish Jamie, Katherine and Ethan would play more often but we leave it up to them to increase that talent or not.
Katherine played Tennis in the spring for the first time. She enjoyed it very much. So much that she participated in tryouts a few weeks ago. We are pretty sure she made the team but haven't heard anything yet. Katherine is in the 9th grade this year and is attending seminary for the first time this year which started at the same time school started.
She played in the band last year but didn't march, so this summer she went through band camp and marched during the fall. She probably won't play next year because she doesn't like it that much. We have learned through the years that Katherine is very much independent and doesn't really care to please the crowd - which is a very good thing. She enjoys having friends but makes sure that she is not just following the crowd. We love that she is this way. She is taking Spanish this year in school and is enjoying that subject.
She motivates Jamie in several ways to by working on particular tasks that Jamie has to do too. For example, Katherine was making a lot of improvement on her Personal Progress and was catching up to Jamie. This action lit a fire under Jamie to get her to start working on her Personal Progress, too. Personal Progress is a program for young women to help them stretch in different aspects of life such as spiritual, service and skills. While working on those individual attributes, one has to accomplish several tasks and a service project for each. There are 8 different attributes such as Knowledge, Virtue and Faith. See Personal Progress .

Jamie (16) is our oldest. Jamie has played in the band for 4 years now. She enjoys her time in the band and her friends at school and church. She enjoys the challenges of AP courses. She knows that this is a necessary route for her to get ahead during high school so that when she does begin college, she won't have to take much of the general courses before she decides what she wants to do for her degree. She works very hard and makes good grades.
This is also Jamie's first year of driving to seminary and to school. It is so nice to have an additional driver in the family. She is doing pretty well at driving. We are still hesitant of her driving on the interstate due to her lack of practice and experience but she will get better with time.  Jamie also ran track for the first time in the spring. She found out a lot about herself and what events she needs to focus on for the 2016 Moody Track season. She is already working on conditioning for that time. She brought home some jump boxes (or leap boxes) to help her become quicker and work on her leg strength and endurance. I am anxious to see how she will do for the upcoming season.
Jamie is also excited about the prom . She ordered a dress in August (I think?) and it still hasn't got here. It's coming from China so maybe they're walking it over. She loves going to the Church Youth activities, too.
Jamie got braces this summer so she is trying to take care of her teeth. We recently saw a Studio C clip on "Susan Weebers" and busted out laughing because she reminded us of Jamie and her supports.
Jamie and Katherine both attended Girls Camp again this year at Camp Hulaco. It gets hotter and hotter every year. Each camp is different but seems to be fun in its own way every year.

Wendy has had so much going on this year - maybe too much to list. As discussed before, changing Jeffery from public schools to home-schooling was definitely a chore. She served as a walking den leader at Twilight Camp in June and that was a week long event. She is constantly with Julie and Nathan taking care of them and then going places many times during the week to take care of family needs. She also served with the Band Boosters at the Home football games. She also went to the Band Booster meetings so that she could be up to date with what is going on.
She also went to the BSA district meetings to bring back information to the Troop or Pack committees. Yes, she also serves as the membership chairman on the Troop and Pack committees in Leeds Ward with Troop 275 and Pack 3275. It is a very hard job especially during this time of year when charters are needing to be renewed. Last year, our ward bought a membership to a Boy Scout software program that can be renewed annually. It is called Scoutbook. It is really neat and parents and leaders can use this tool to monitor the boy scout or cub scout's progress.
Wendy planned our summer with fun events. We took a trip to Six Flags, Turkey Creek, Cave Spring, Georgia, Oak Mountain and Calloway Gardens, Georgia. Wendy and I also, took some getaway trips to Gatlinburg, TN (after my release). We definitely enjoyed ourselves and needed the time off.
She also has a calling in the Relief Society as a 4th Sunday instructor. She does an outstanding job and members always look forward to her diligently prepared and creative lessons. Wendy does so much for our family and we are so thankful for her.

Jason (me) had a good bit to do this year too. From the beginning of the year I was still serving as the Bishop of our ward and as most of you know, I was released this past November (9th) and called as a High Councilor in the Birmingham Alabama Stake. I am still trying to understand what I am doing and how best to serve the members throughout the stake. I have definitely been blessed to see and do the ward level of church in a lot of capacities and callings and now will get to see it from a Stake level. It seems like your eyes are opened a little each time that you serve in different callings.
During January and February, I was following Ethan and Jeffery around to basketball practice and games and that was fun to do. We are getting it started again to where I am going to practice with Ethan during this month before the games begin in January.
In June, I attended a couple of days at Scout Camp to be a chaperon for our boys in the Scout Troop. I also went to work at the 6th Street Parking for the Boy Scouts in Tuscaloosa to help earn money for the Scouting Fund for the young men in our ward. I didn't attend any games this year but was grateful to help the boys.
I am still working in Birmingham in the Transmission Project Management & Customer Service department. I work with great people. I have changed areas and obtained more responsibility and I enjoy it. I really enjoy working in transmission lines area because that is what I was taught from the beginning of my career at Alabama Power but I also enjoy learning the Substation side of the business too.

Although many things have transpired in our lives this past year, we continue to be grateful for the many blessings that we have received. We are truly grateful for the gospel of Jesus Christ, for his birth in the manger, for his teachings that help us be more like him and for his atoning sacrifice so that we may return to live with him one day. We hope to keep Him in our mind during this holiday season and soak up the full meaning of Christmas. We love this time of year for the spirit that it brings and hope that you enjoy it, too. We hope all of you have a very Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year!

Sincerely,
The Hoppers - Jason, Wendy, Jamie, Katherine, Ethan, Jeffery, Julie and Nathan















Wednesday, December 2, 2015

Basketball Time

Well, it's that time again. Ethan and I went to register for basketball at the Moody Municipal building. He looked at sizes and finally got an adult medium for shorts and adult small for the shirt. Tryouts are this Saturday. I am not sure what time yet and then either on Sunday night or Monday they will tell us the teams and practices. Just listening to Chad Dorsett last night, Ethan may have another year in this league if he doesn't make the school team. They let 13 year old players play but just can't be 14 before the season starts - I believe.

We will see how things go. Hopefully he gets a good coach this year. I am not sure if I am willing to be a head coach but can definitely contribute to being an assistant coach.

We are prepping for Christmas. Last night we spent some time setting up the Christmas tree and putting all of the ornaments on there, then Jamie was moving the tree over toward the wall and one of the plastic footings broke, so we had to remove all of the ornaments, garland, and lights then brake down the tree to be thrown away. We will have to pay for a brand new tree - something that we have never done before. We have had (2) hand me down trees, but never have we had to buy one.

Tuesday, November 24, 2015

Old Calling, New Calling

Well, guess what? It has been over 5 years since I was called as Bishop of the Leeds Ward - since October 10, 2010. It has been long, but fast. It has been joyous but sad to let it go. I can say that I have grew tremendously from this calling. Before I was called as a bishop, I remember how I was and now that I have served a term as the bishop, I can see many things that I do differently. Of course, there have been many challenges that I have faced as the bishop, but I am glad that I have received those challenges because that have helped mold me into what the Lord needed me to be at that time. I will definitely miss all of the aspects of being a bishop but it is time to pass the torch to a new kid on the block.
Bishop Aaron May was called as the bishop of the Leeds Ward on November 8th, 2015. He selected great counselors in Matt Bennett (2nd) and John Blandamer (1st). My counselors were released also - Paul Smith and Steve Morrill. Brother Blandamer was released from the High Council and I was called in his place. I do not have a ward assignment but I am to assist the Stake President with missionary work in the stake. It is and was overwhelming to me at first, but I think with the Lord's help I can do anything that needs to be done. I am to attend wards and branches in the stake at least (2) times a month, but speaking to Leroy on Sunday, it seems like I need to be out and attending a ward or branch as much as I can except on Fast Sundays. This will be very interesting as I won't see my family very much on Sunday. At least as a bishop, I could see them from the pulpit, but now I won't be able to see them very much. This is what the Lord has called me to and where I need to be so that I can be an instrument in the Lord's hands.
Wendy was relieved when I was released but now it may be a little harder since I won't be there at all unless as I travel back, I get to the building before the time ends. I can't be selfish at this point because there are many more examples of individuals who have done what I am doing or served as stake presidents or counselors who have served and have given of their time, talents and work toward building up the kingdom of God. This is the least I could do and hopefully I can do it well.

Tuesday, August 26, 2014

Stake Conference and Concentration

This past weekend we had Stake meetings and Stake Conference. Elder Tony Parker of the Area Seventy was our visitor. He was very vibrant, loud, funny and spiritual. Unfortunately, I was chosen to answer questions in both Saturday Sessions which is very stressful. We had a Q/A time for the adult timeframe which didn't turn out real good because some of the members asked questions that could have been answered in a fireside, BYD or 5th Sunday.

On Sunday, we were all able to travel together in the Truck (Excursion). That was fun. Although we were a little late but not too bad. Jeffery called the Seventy - the Preacher. He said this because he told us that his Great Grandfather was a preacher, His Grandfather was a preacher and his Brother was a preacher. Some of the children were concentrating some of the time. Here is a picture of what Ethan was doing as he concentrated on the speakers.




Friday, August 22, 2014

Looking for the right one

(Long Read)
Several months before Nathan came into our life, we began to worry about a vehicle that would be big enough for all of us. We soon decided that we would continue with the vehicles that we had until next year. We have a 2005 Dodge Grand Caravan that seats 7 adults and youth. We also have a 2001 Toyota Camry that seats 5 adults and youth. I say adults and youth because in both vehicles if it was at full capacity with all adults, then it would not be comfortable.

After Nathan came into our lives, we began to look casually at the Suburbans. That way we are familiar with them and when it comes time that we make a purchase then we are not surprised by the prices. After a while of looking at the Suburbans, we wondered what other vehicles might be available for us in a different make. In the GMC, you have a Yukon XL that is similar to the Suburban. In Dodge, there is really nothing but a van called the Cheyenne. These vans are usually 7 passenger and are pretty old and can't find them. In the Ford, you have the Excursions and also the E-150, which are hard to find, too. So, we continued to look at the main 3 vehicles - Suburban, Yukon XL and Excursions.

As we looked more often we saw that the Excursions were only being sold from years 2000 to 2005. While researching this we found a few more 2000 models that were being sold more than the others. That was an interesting fact. We also looked a couple of Suburbans that were very pricey for 2003 models and newer. We did see several models that were older than 2003 but had high miles.

So we have been looking casually for 5 months and saw a 2000 Ford Excursion Limited Ed. that was for sale in Montgomery for a good price. We looked at Edmunds.com, Nada.com and kbb.com to compare sale prices. All prices were promising. The pictures on Craig's List looked good, so we took out money to go look at the vehicle and possibly purchase it if it was up to par and in very good condition. Off we went to Montgomery on a Monday. We travel down and we finally find his house. Very nice house at the back of this very nice neighborhood. The (young) guy comes out to meet us and show us the vehicle. I am the first one to look at it and see the insides while Wendy is getting Julie and Nathan out of the van. I probably spend about 20 seconds looking at it and I am disgusted by this point. The leather seats are worn. The original radio has been replaced by a DVD player that looks as if Joe Dirt did the job under his shade tree. There are silver screws in the dash where he must have ripped out and broken the rivets to the dash. The third row seat was cloth while the other seats were leather. We were so high on the truck that when we saw it, we were let down. The truck was not worth the price that he was asking. We were probably not there more than 10 minutes. It was almost a waste of time for us to go down to Montgomery to see this vehicle.

As we were driving back, we noticed another vehicle in Trussville that was almost identical except a big brush guard that Wendy hated. We tried to contact the guy as we were driving back but he didn't reach us until we got back home hours later. I was telling Wendy as we were driving back that we drove down hoping that this was our dream vehicle and took so much time to do so thinking low mileage but far away. And now a vehicle that is not very far away with a little higher mileage. The first was a let down and the second one would be the one.

We talked to the seller on the phone and we planned a time to go see the vehicle 3 days later. As we were going to see it yesterday, we were planning our out. What could we say if we liked it but didn't think it would be the right one because of so many other vehicles that we could see in the future. I asked Wendy, "what is it that will make you say "yes, this is the one"? She told me that it would have to be exactly what the seller says it is and, of course, in very good condition. We arrive at the location in Trussville, pull up and see the vehicle. The guy meets us at the vehicle and begins to explain the vehicle history. Mind you, he is a talker and that is exactly what you want when you are looking at vehicles. You want people to tell you what is wrong with it, what has been added, what it was used for, where it has been, who they bought it from, etc. The guy did that very thing. We thought that this vehicle was just an Excursion XL but it was a Limited Edition, too. The seller had added so many things to this vehicle and the vehicle had a lot of bells and whistles with it to begin with. Like I said before, as a person talks, he can really let go of a lot of information about the wrongs and rights of the vehicle. We were very excited about the vehicle after he told us about everything. We then drove it down the road, pulled over at a location and started pushing all of the buttons to figure out how to control all of those bells.

As we were going back to his house, I looked at Wendy and asked her what she thought and she said, "I want it". Then we began to talk about the money and what we should offer. KBB.com said $6150. We knew that he wouldn't take this amount because he claimed that he didn't want to get rid of it but needed to and that it was almost like a member of his family. So we planned what we were going to say or offer him. Now Wendy was going to let me do this part of it, but me knowing Wendy and how she had already been talking to him the whole time that it would be better if she made the offer. Wendy looked like a pro and she must have learned from a very good one - Leroy. Because her plan was to talk to him and then let him talk so that he would talk too much. Anyway, When the card finally were put on the table to talk money, this is how it went. Wendy told him that she didn't want to offend him which in return he said, "oh, you can't offend me". This was good. She went on to say that KBB.com stated that it was for $6150 and wanted to make him a higher offer. After that he said a bunch of words to say "that he wouldn't take  $6150 for it, felt better about our offer and counter offered with $6800 which was the exact number the we settled on before coming back to his house in the truck.


This being said, we were both pleased with the vehicle and the price. More was said during this event but you will find that information in Volume II and III, coming soon. ;)

Thursday, July 17, 2014

Summer Bowling Family Night

Usually we have this long list of things to do during the summer but with many schedule conflicts that are apparent this summer, we were barely able to get away and do some fun stuff. Especially with two small children. Wendy is trying to schedule naps and bedtime for the two little kids all of the time. Plus you have to throw in Twilight Camp, Girls Camp and Band Camp. If you notice in some of the pictures, Jamie was not there. Jamie and Mindy had Band Camp this night and the Bennetts were not able to make it because they already had a bowling night a couple of weeks before. Here are some good pictures. 
 Jeffery's approach is so hilarious. Luckily I have it on video.
 Ethan had so much fun tonight. He did pretty good, too.
 Maybe this is where Jeffery get's it from? Just kidding Wendy.
 When I bowl, my ball stays 3 inches off the floor until it gets 10 feet from the pins.
Our left-hander. 

There were some people beside us that left before we did and they left us with almost a whole pizza and the kids enjoyed that.